Care free life...Bullshit!

Humm...What a care free life people live! Let's just be self absorbed and selfish and blame everyone else for all the problems in our lives. Ok here we go...It's not my fault that these things happen,it not my fault work sucks, it not my fault my relationship sucks,it not my fault, all these things all these bad things are happening to me,why is this all happening! Can't be I am "PERFECT"!It seems we all have the knack of pushing off blame to others and not taking responibility for ourselves.An example here. A action causes a reaction.Good or bad. If asituation is bad get out,if your relationship is bad and isn't working have the guts to get out. End it and move on. Be the mature adult you want to claim to be and move on. It is ok to hurt some ones feelings they will get over it and right their ship.No one ever told me life was easy. It isn't it is hard and we all suffer right along through it. Life is only what you can make of it. We all have friends and family to lean on use them as a tool.If everyone is telling you "thats bad for you"or "He or she isn't the rightone for you"foe gods sake listen! Why would everyone lie to you? Ok...so if we need to be mature and want the life we need then we get to work and earn it.Quit blaming everyone else for or mistakes and quit bitching.Take responibility for ourselves. Listen to good advice.